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The fantasy world of Hugh Hefner
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Love etc
Crystal with Hef in 2014. Charley Gallay/Getty
The fantasy world of Hugh Hefner
Shortly before he âwent up to that great orgy in the skyâ, Hugh Hefner made his wife Crystal, 60 years his junior, promise to âonly say good thingsâ about him after his death, says Hadley Freeman in The Sunday Times. Instead, she used his dying wish as the title of her new memoir â and âfair enoughâ. Her account of life in the Playboy mansion, where she lived for eight years, sheds new light on âthe gap between Hughâs image and the realityâ. Far from being a âdebonair libertineâ, he was a âgrumpy old man who ate the same disgusting meals in rotationâ. Favourites included canned chicken noodle soup, saltines and a block of cream cheese, and, âif it was a sex nightâ, a pre-coital BLT sandwich. Another discovery is that, âdespite having an enormous amount of sex in his life, he was terrible at itâ. The regular group sex sessions with fellow âplaymatesâ were disappointing for everyone involved, including Hef himself.
The memoir also gives a slightly different view of life inside âthe worldâs most famous sleaze empireâ. Crystal moved into the mansion aged 21, two weeks after she met her future husband â then a youthful 81 â at a Playboy Halloween party. She and the other girlfriends had a rigorous schedule and a strict 6pm curfew. They were given $1,000 spending money a week, along with âfree beauty treatments and plastic surgery on tapâ, actively encouraged by Hugh. She left him once when she found out he wasnât giving her a fair share of the profits from a reality TV show set inside the mansion, The Girls Next Door. He got $400,000 per episode for the first series, despite barely appearing, while the girls got nothing. But she quickly got bored of life in the real world, returned a year later, and âmarried the old goat for good measureâ.
Only Say Good Things by Crystal Hefner is available here.
Property
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Life
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The spy who became a literary star
For much of his life, Somerset Maugham was the âmost famous writer in the worldâ, says Mark McGuinness in The Oldie, as well as being the most read since Dickens and âprobably the richestâ. And he was prolific for decades: his first novel was published in the reign of Queen Victoria, and his last short stories appeared under Elizabeth II. Yet, 150 years after his birth, only a handful of his books are still in print. Itâs sad. Unlike so much writing today, even Maughamâs earliest books were remarkable for their âlack of patriarchal Victorian social moralisingâ.
Born at the British Embassy in Paris, the young Maugham spoke mainly French for the first 10 years of his life. After both his parents died he ended up in the care of a âdim, chilly, self-centred clerical uncleâ in Kent. But success came early: he quickly found that audiences loved exactly the kind of âwitty, urbane society dramaâ for which he became famous. Like so many writers in the 20th century, he was also a spy. In 1917 he was sent to Russia, where the overthrow of the Tsar threatened Russiaâs withdrawal from the war. âHe believed that, had he gone six months earlier, he might have averted the Bolshevik revolution.â Although he was primarily gay, Maugham was âtrappedâ into marriage by Syrie Wellcome, the estranged wife of pharmaceutical tycoon Henry Wellcome. Maugham avoided âdomestic miseryâ by travelling the empire with his true love, the athletic, rakish, bad-boy Gerald Haxton. The two made their home in Cap Ferrat, in the south of France, where a staff of 13 kept the couple in âEdwardian luxuryâ. He dubbed the Riviera âthat sunny place for shady peopleâ.
đđ As Maugham wrote in his 1938 autobiography The Summing Up: âIn my twenties the critics said I was brutal, in my thirties they said I was flippant, in my forties they said I was cynical, in my fifties they said I was competent, and now in my sixties they say I am superficial. I have gone my way, following the course I had mapped out for myself.â
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Zeitgeist
The Labour leader with Angela Rayner at the London Pride Parade in 2022. Niklas Halleân/AFP/Getty
Sorry, Keir, youâve got the culture war wrong
Keir Starmer waded into the culture war this week, says Rod Liddle in The Spectator, suggesting that the Tories had âmanufactured the whole thing to distract attention from their manifest incompetence at running the countryâ. You might wonder whether a man who for years couldnât decide whether women have penises was wise to raise the subject, but recent polling may have persuaded him. It turns out that only a small percentage of people consider themselves âwokeâ or âanti-wokeâ â around 15% apiece â while the vast majority say âneitherâ. Some 61% say politicians exaggerate culture war issues to advance their own agendas, and âvirtually nobodyâ says they are electorally important.
But this is a âvery superficial reading of the public mindsetâ. First, the term âculture warâ is an invention of the press, and simply doesnât feature in normal peopleâs lives. Most voters donât think of the individual issues as one blob â âit is the specifics of the issues which grateâ. And when you get into the specifics, âit is very clear what the public thinksâ. The average person, quite rightly, holds no animus against those who have transitioned. But a âhuge majorityâ are opposed to trans women competing in womenâs sporting events, and only a slightly smaller proportion think trans women who have not had surgery should not use womenâs loos. Similarly, in a 2019 poll just 19% said Britain should be ashamed of its imperial past, while twice that number said the opposite. In other words, while people might be blasĂ© about the âculture warsâ, on the specifics, âthey are anything butâ.
Sport
Competitors in the extremely chilly 1963 race
An endurance test like no other
The Dutch province of Friesland is where youâll find a âtest of physical and mental endurance like no otherâ, says Matthew Kenyon on the BBC. The famous Elfstedentocht, or âEleven Cities Tourâ, is a cross-country skating race that sees competitors whizz along nearly 200km of frozen lakes and waterways. âFamed for its intensityâ, the event can only take place after two weeks of temperatures of about â11C, as that creates enough ice around the course to âbear the weight of 25,000 people in a brief 24-hour windowâ. The conditions are so rare that the race has been held only three times since the inaugural one in 1909.
In the âbitter winterâ of 1963, the mercury plummeted to a âbone-chillingâ -18C on race day. The cold proved âso brutalâ â with frozen eyes, frozen toes, and frozen other bits â that only a handful finished. But the rewards are great: although there is no cash prize, previous winners have become national heroes, with one even moving to Canada âto escape the constant attentionâ. The most recent event was way back in 1997. Nevertheless, a 500-page plan for the next outing is still prepared each December, just in case conditions are right. Every winter comes with the same excited whispers: âWill there finally be an Elfstedentocht this year?â
Inside politics
The Telegraph: no longer loyal to the Tories
The Tory papers đ the Tory party
Something âoddâ is going on at the Telegraph, says Andrew Marr in The New Statesman. The newspaper is currently at the mercy of the government, which is deciding whether to block an âunwelcomeâ takeover involving the Abu Dhabi royal family. Yet it recently published a detailed election poll complete with a âsweaty-lookingâ photo of Rishi Sunak, implying that the Tories will be toast unless they acquiesce to the hardline immigration policy of Reform UK. The affair speaks to how Britainâs right-wing media is shrugging off its loyalty to the Conservative Party.
Two big factors are at play. One involves newspaper editors. Chris Evans (Telegraph), Tony Gallagher (Times) and Ben Taylor (Sunday Times) are unclubbable, âhard-drivingâ news men who increasingly âwork very heavily from data, metrics and audience analysisâ. This is a style of editing unlikely to be influenced by gin and tonics with Tory cabinet ministers. The second factor involves newspaper owners. Another candidate to buy the Telegraph is hedge fund tycoon and GB News investor Paul Marshall, who is a right-winger but ânot by any stretch of the imagination a traditional Conservativeâ. Rupert Murdochâs papers, meanwhile, seem to be sensing where power is going: Keir Starmer has enjoyed âgently favourable coverageâ in The Times, and met executives from The Sun for a private dinner in Mayfair before Christmas. As one veteran Conservative puts it, âwe have never seen a right-wing media so powerful, and also so hostile to the partyâ.
Poetry
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The digital ageâs answer to Lord Byron
British poet Donna Ashworth âloves wordsâ, says The Economist. You can tell, because on her website she calls herself âDonna Ashworth â Author and lover of wordsâ, doubtless to âdistinguish herself from all those other authors who donât like wordsâ. She also says she loves stretch marks (for they are âby Mother Natureâs paintbrushâ); putting meaningful things in italics; and motherly love, which she mystifyingly likens to a âbeautiful black holeâ. The overall effect feels less like poetry, and more as if âChatGPT has been asked to produce inspirational fridge magnetsâ. Yet Ashworthâs work is extremely popular. Her eighth collection of poetry, Wild Hope, reached number seven on the Amazon bestsellers list this month. She has a whopping 1.6 million followers on social media.
Popular poets are nothing new. Lord Byron could sell 10,000 copies of a poem in a single day; in the 20th century, a book by John Betjeman could shift 2.5 million. And anything that stokes interest in an otherwise unfashionable art form is surely to be celebrated: British poetry sales hit a record ÂŁ14.4m last year, largely thanks to Ashworth and her ilk. But the problem with âinstapoetryâ is that it âdoesnât feel trueâ. Philip Larkin gives his readers a âshiver of pleasureâ not because his lines are pretty, but âbecause they are spot-onâ. The same certainly cannot be said for Ashworth. Perhaps some people really do look at their stretch marks and see âMother Natureâs paintbrushâ. Much more likely, âthey just think, âDamnââ.
Quoted
âWhoever said money canât buy happiness didnât know where to shop.â
Gertrude Stein